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Vol.1048《我很坦荡,你也别放在心上》

 

你在爱情里走九十九步,对方不迈出一步都是没戏,即使你一人走完一百步,对方后退一步,也是玩完。“先从朋友做起”不是为了给你希望,而是给有自知之明的人一句不损尊严的拒绝而已。

 

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前段时间和朋友去郊外爬山,经过一间古寺,门口的算命先生路过众人朝我走来,刚想开口就被我打断。“大师,你是想说我印堂发黑,需要你帮我消灾解难吗?”“不不不,我看你最近会遇到两朵桃花,一个你喜欢的,一个喜欢你的……”“大师,你不按套路啊,你还是帮我算算什么时候能发财吧,心灵鸡汤对我不管用。”我暂时还没遇到两朵桃花陷入感情纠葛,就先和你们说说我的朋友周晓音的故事吧。

毕业前周晓音被一个人喜欢过。她的同班同学。男生每晚都会给她发信息道晚安,大学四年抬头不见低头见,周晓音不好意思直接拒绝,只能冷漠对待,比男生妈妈还语重心长地劝解他应该将心思放在学习上,但男生依然隔三差五发来慰问,下雨了提醒她带伞,天冷了嘱咐她加衣。周晓音从来不觉得感动,甚至感到厌烦,最终将他拉黑。

大学毕业后我听说那个男生出国念了研究生,第一时间打电话给周晓音报告,并调侃说“如果当初你俩成了,小情侣一起上自习说不定能一起考到国外去”。

“我怕我和他在一起,他毕业后会和我一样在私企累成狗啊”。嘴上说笑,其实周晓音心里清楚,不喜欢就是不喜欢,她无需浪费自己的时间,也万万不配浪费他人的生命。更何况那个男生只是嘴上的爱情,被她拒绝后还不是没两个月就找了个小师妹,出国前还把师妹甩了。在她看来,这不是真正的喜欢。

毕业后周晓音喜欢过一个人。她的公司前辈。学生时代,她最看不惯球场上为帅哥呐喊着迷的花痴女们,我的天,又不是拍偶像剧。但如今你问她为什么会喜欢上这位前辈,纯粹是因为他好看吧,周晓音会这样回答。他好看,认真工作的时候总是特别迷人,酒桌上为周晓音挡酒绅士而有魅力,就连思考时眉头紧锁抽烟的样子周晓音都喜欢。周晓音不敢相信喜欢一个人会盲目崇拜,这很不符合自己的理性,但也许这就是爱吧,她想。

前辈什么都好,他对每一个人都是那么贴心宽容,前辈也仿佛什么都会,唯一不会可能就是喜欢周晓音。入职考试前,前辈给予周晓音帮助及鼓励,顺利入职后,周晓音几次想邀请前辈表示感谢顺便告白都被拒绝了。他们之间,好像有堵透明的墙,开关在他那边,只要他不打开那扇门,周晓音就永远无法靠近。

“前辈可能是因为性格慢热吧,他没有拒绝我,说可以先从朋友做起,我是不是很有希望?”周晓音问我。因为盲目的爱情,她开始幻想自己是偶像剧女主角,成为当初自己嗤之以鼻的那种人。她甚至变成学生时代暗恋她的男同学的翻版,角色转换成了自己,就如王小波所言,不管我本人多么平庸,我总觉得对你的爱很美。将纠缠美化作痴情。在我看来,这也不是真正的喜欢。

也许你觉得手机里的问候是爱,其实对方并不这样认为。安慰的一个拥抱,或者省略一个字,安慰的一个包,抵得过一千句一万句的“晚安”。

你在爱情里走九十九步,对方不迈出一步都是没戏,即使你一人走完一百步,对方后退一步,也是玩完。“先从朋友做起”不是为了给你希望,而是给有自知之明的人一句不损尊严的拒绝而已。

“我不放弃爱的勇气,我不怀疑会有真心,我要握住一个最美的梦,给未来的自己,不管怎样,怎样都会受伤,伤了又怎样,至少我很坚强,我很坦荡。”

每一段“爱与不爱”的经历都教会我们成长,心伤也不是坏事,证明我们曾经付出过。每一次受伤,是为了下一次别那么受伤。我想抓住缘分,但真是有缘无分时,即使放手,我很坦荡,你也别太放在心上。如果真的喜欢,穷追猛打不如自尊自爱,等待一个爱你的、也值得你爱的人出现,那时候,你会发现相爱也不是多么困难的事情。

 

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