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Vol.896《独自经历 好好感受》

有人说爱就是一蔬一饭的陪伴,有人说爱是一种不死的英雄梦想,爱情和人生一样,都需要“独自经历,好好感受”。

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有人说爱就是一蔬一饭的陪伴,有人说爱是一种不死的英雄梦想,爱情和人生一样,都需要“独自经历,好好感受”。地球上最帅的老帅哥也结婚了,你我也就无须再假装怀疑爱情,故作看透沧桑了吧。愿你寻找灵魂的路途都明亮,桥洞都坚固,在遇到那个人的时候,愿你卸掉那些防备与孤独,拿出勇气敞开心扉。

如果婚姻是两个人的相守,那么也许太深的感情会使婚姻变得复杂。但如果他只是想跟你恋爱,不想因承诺而尴尬,但又对彼此都带不来那种恋爱的朦胧和心动,那还谈什么恋和爱呢?

我们说的恋爱,首先是爱的,是让彼此开心愉悦的感情,是有感动惊喜,是有受伤难过的,而不是相敬如宾小心端守,如果不敢承诺又不够情深,又何必尴尬。
何不大方的承认,对方不是你要的那个,对自己承认,如果遇到真爱,我只想安定。

2015金球奖上,老帅哥乔治克鲁尼对妻子的深情告白感动了所有人:

“It’s a humbling thing to find someone to love, even better if you’ve been waiting your whole life. And when your whole life is 53 years……..Amal,whatever alchemy it is that brought us together, I couldn’t be more proud to be your husband.”

“找一个爱的人是一件很畏羞的事,尤其是用上你的一辈子。而我,找了53年。

Amal,不管是命运什么样的神秘魔力将我们联结在一起,我只想说,没有比成为你的丈夫更让我自豪的事情了。”

“humbling”,中文意思是“令人羞愧的”,这个词多么精妙的形容了在如今的时代坦承自己要寻找真爱的心情。从什么时候开始,我们羞于对别人说起“我要找的不过是一份真感情”?这个时代并不赞颂真爱,我们只是怕孤独。只愿得一人心的理想是荒唐的,到年龄是一定要结婚的,我们在时代的流光溢彩中睁大眼睛迅速旋转,直到越来越茫然。

当然,克鲁尼也不是吃素的,他阅女无数,纵横情场数载,所交往女性从演员、模特、服务员、摔跤选手不一而足,他毫无顾忌,声称“养头猪在家里都比养个老婆自由多了”,坚称自己是不婚主义者。普罗大众总是在猜想,是大帅哥一直找不到真爱,对婚姻绝望,还是的确不婚才是人类自由新境界?于是,太多太多的钻石王老五也流行起来说自己不要婚姻,于是太多的女人也开始效仿《欲望都市》里潇洒任性的女主角,大家都仿佛强大的不需要伴侣,人生苦短,何必在情侣上打滚给自己添堵?

只可惜,大帅哥也是人,所谓的“主义”不过是来自个人经验,你要是信奉它你就傻了。现在他就这么轻易的背弃了自己撂下的“绝不结婚”的狠话,过起了甜蜜蜜的小日子。就和《欲望都市》里的Mr.Big一样,他们不是不结婚,而是不想和“你”结婚。

而他的新婚妻子,36岁的Amal Alamuddin,放在我国早就是面容悲苦、该贱价甩卖的大龄单身女青年,却春光得意、从容不迫,Amal是英国全民票选出的最美女律师,曾担任维基解密创始人朱利安.阿桑奇 (Julian Assange) 的人权律师。难怪老帅哥这样说:“是我高攀了她。”她的聪明、博学让老帅哥心甘情愿做一辈子裙下之臣。引用《欲望都市》里Carrie的自白,她单身,是因为没有找到生命中一起驰骋、起舞的人。

“只有从不尝试的人才不会犯错”,谈恋爱是很好的了解自我的经历,动辄说自己要找灵魂伴侣,那你也先得自己有个灵魂吧?私以为真爱的真谛并不等同于孟姜女千里送寒衣,也不是王宝钏苦等十八载,真爱用一句话就能解释,它是两个灵魂间的默契和慈悲。恋爱经历空白的人并不一定在感情中坚定专一,反而因为缺少经验更容易遭受打击。比起长夜漫漫苦哈哈标榜自己专情的无病呻吟者,那些“含泪奔跑,华丽跌倒,人山人海,边走边爱”的人可能离真爱更近。

是的,爱是天时地利的迷信,但某种程度上说,它也是具有无可置疑的客观性,那个人不出现,你也许永远也不会知道真爱的滋味。就像陈奕迅在《1874》唱的“仍然没有遇到,那位跟我绝配的恋人,你根本也未有出现,还是已然逝去?”很多的人,一辈子也没有遇到那个人。

有人说爱就是一蔬一饭的陪伴,有人说爱是一种不死的英雄梦想,爱情和人生一样,都需要“独自经历,好好感受”。地球上最帅的老帅哥也结婚了,你我也就无须再假装怀疑爱情,故作看透沧桑了吧。愿你寻找灵魂的路途都明亮,桥洞都坚固,在遇到那个人的时候,愿你卸掉那些防备与孤独,拿出勇气敞开心扉。

所以,爱情真的是一种信仰,也许老帅哥克鲁尼在前半生无数个日夜,风流倜傥享受不婚的自由,偶尔心里也跟过堂风穿过一样空落落,对自己承认“如果遇到真爱,我只想安定”。所以他不肯结婚,恰恰因为对婚姻的敬畏。

53年不算什么,老帅哥等到了自己的真爱。而我们,多想就此遇到那个人,无比坚定地跟ta说:“我不会再让你在情路上打滚!”

是的,到我身边,我绝对不会允许你继续在情路上打滚。

 

 

垫乐及素材:
1:《关于爱情》-林海
2:《Vem Vet》-Lisa Ekdahl
3:《It’s Amazing》- Jem欲望都市 插曲
4:《Let It Be》-Journey South
5:《what a wonderful world》-陈奕迅

 

 

主播、编辑:麦麦
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