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Vol.1073《前男友,永远,不可能,是好朋友》

 

于千万人之中,遇见你要遇见的人。于千万年之中,时间无涯的荒野里,没有早一步,也没有迟一步,遇上了也只能轻轻地说一句:“哦,你也在这里吗?”

 

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昨天本来约好去爬山,因为下雨临时改成了去桃子家茶楼打麻将。阿姨见了我又是三句话不离找对象,说我不能这样,单身越久越难谈恋爱的。

桃子在旁边添油加醋,要不给你介绍几个小伙子?有身高有长相有家境的那种。我擦,不用了不用了,算命老太太说了,我最近两年应该以事业为主,感情这种事呀可遇不可求。

好吧,我瞎说的,没有算命老太太。

大概真的是老了,不像以前那样渴求爱情了。再往回倒几年,多懵懂多鲜活啊,对爱情有着近乎疯狂的偏执,渴望长相厮守,渴望白头到老。

可等真的经历过几段分分合合之后,就觉得没意思了。谈恋爱没意思,搞暧昧没意思,约会逛街看电影没意思,甚至做爱也没意思了,疲软。

有时候蛮想劝00后别太早谈恋爱的。你看我,上学的时候把一半的精力都用在搞对象上面,等真正不上学了吧,反而不想搞对象了。

提前经历了几个回合的心动、嫉妒、甜蜜、分道扬镳,以至于到了现在,本该成双成对的年纪,反而孤家寡人一个。不过话说回来,一旦那个喜欢的人出现,感情这事儿是不受控制的。所以开心就好,别留遗憾就好。

我呢,就这样吧,反正单身的不止我一个。

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坐着嗑瓜子等人,手机屏突然亮了,是高中时代的某个前男友。分享了一篇我最近写的文章,问我:署名也是八命先生,是重名吗?

我回他,不是呀。
他回我,好。
然后就没下文了。

这时桃子凑过头来,看见我在跟他聊天,惊讶当初分手的那么决绝,现在两个人居然还有联系。Ps:其实我早就不记得为什么分手了。

很八卦的盯着我俩聊天记录,不明白为什么我要骗人家。谁骗人家了,我骗他又捞不着好处,我图啥。这才发现,我那个“不是”相当有歧义。

不过无所谓了,懒得解释。

你看,这就是真的不喜欢了。要换成是我喜欢的人,偶然看到我的文章,过来询问我细节,我能兴奋地手舞足蹈,肯定会小心翼翼回复他消息。

可如果不喜欢,谁还会在乎那么多啊,我把自己的意思表达清楚就是了。你回我一个字,甚至不回复我,我都不会觉得有什么不妥。

喜欢过是真的,不喜欢了也是真的。

喜欢你的时候我爱得死心塌地,
不喜欢你了,大家连好朋友都没得做。

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我说过的,别管斗地主还是打麻将,总之从来就没赢过。刚想叽歪又输惨了,桃子故意岔开话题感慨,你们分手了居然不拉黑前男友,留着拜年嘛!

这时候我才知道,坐在我对面的小姐姐前段时间刚刚失恋,我还以为她骨子里就不爱言语。一边摸牌一边安慰自己:

干嘛要拉黑,我跟王大猫分手了,不还是好朋友嘛!就是身份不同了而已,我现在需要他帮忙,还不是二话不说就赶过来帮我呀。

桃子跟她关系好,不像我们说什么话要掂量掂量合不合适,终于戳穿了她:你呀,就别骗自己了,深爱过的人怎么可能做朋友,还是不甘心罢了,试着放下吧。

我想起网上那句特别流行的话,真心喜欢过的人没办法做朋友,因为多看几眼还是想要拥有。其实啊,能够放下是很幸运的,毕竟放不下才是平常。

想起前两天失恋了找我哭鼻子的小女孩,隔着微信她问我,你说我们最后有可能在一起吗?他明明表现出对我很暧昧,可为什么不表白,还说我是他最好的朋友。

不想做狗屁好朋友,要做就做女朋友。

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喜欢张爱玲在短文《爱》里的那段话:

于千万人之中,遇见你要遇见的人。于千万年之中,时间无涯的荒野里,没有早一步,也没有迟一步,遇上了也只能轻轻地说一句:“哦,你也在这里吗?”

其实真的不是当局者迷,我见过太多人明明清醒的不得了,可就是控制不了自己的心。也对,真心喜欢一个人,哪有那么轻易就放手呢。

可总有一天你得放手,你得回头吧。试着看淡一点,相爱时轰轰烈烈无怨无悔,分开时不再留恋大步向前。

相信我,前男友不可能成为好朋友的。

除非他没有喜欢过你。

 

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