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Vol.1064《多少黑名单,曾互道晚安。》

 

爱情里,从来不会势均力敌。总有一个人,会先离开。
但是,能不能让我在没有彻底放下你的时候,再给我点时间。
当我想你的时候,让我再看看你的头像,以为你在冲我笑。

 

作者:陈子淏 | 主播:仲夏

 

 

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部门聚会,大家玩起大冒险。要求输的一方,给微信上排序为25的好友,发一句“睡了吗?”

轮到小町的时候,她果断说:换一个吧,这个不行。

大家一看,觉得有故事,便故意起哄,非这个人不可。小町看糊弄不过去,只好坦白交代,那个人是她前任。

于是大家重新挑了一个数字,接着玩游戏。

小町除了是我同事外,和我还有一层关系。她的前任,是我校友,而且读书的时候,还有过好几次来往。

而且我可以确定的一点是,那个男生,早已把小町的微信删除了。

一个已经删除了对方。一个还恋恋不忘。

那天晚上,我犹豫了好久,考虑要不要告诉小町对方删除了她。后来想想,还是算了。既然小町没有放下,留个微信做念想也好。

 

 

02

以前,我也很讨厌微信的单向删除功能。看到自己发出去的消息,前面冒出一个感叹号的滋味真不好受。

不过后来,有了喜欢的人,才知道,其实单向删除好友也蛮好的。

虽然你把我删除了,但你依旧躺在我的微信列表里。只要我不找你,我就可以假装你还在那里。

电影《泰坦尼克》里,白发苍苍的罗丝坐在轮椅上,对着远方伤感地说道:“我甚至连他的一张照片都没有,他只活在我的记忆里。”

之前在网上看到一个类似的故事。

一对情侣在一起的时候,总以为来日方长,所以等分手后,女生才发现他两居然没有拍过一张合照。

除了伤痛,什么都没有留下。

于是那个姑娘,就对着男生的微信头像,看了两年,直到她彻底放下。

 

 

03

不光是头像,还有聊天记录。

现在的人早已没有情书,连短信都很少。微信聊天里记录了多少情侣的暧昧表白,甜言蜜语,争吵和好,甚至可能连“分手”两个字,也是在微信里说出来的。

如果双向删除好友了,那么全部的聊天记录都不见了。风吹过尚且会有声响,彼此相爱过的两个人,又怎么可以一键就删掉爱过的痕迹?

朋友G告诉我。她和前任分手那一年,刚好是她人生中最难捱的时候。

刚大学毕业,离开朋友,一个人在大城市打拼。初入职场,经常犯错被上司骂,偷偷躲在卫生间哭,然后擦干眼泪,继续工作;第一次租房,又被中介骗钱,吃了一个星期的泡面。

那一年,每当觉得自己快撑不过去的时候,朋友就会拿出手机,翻看和前任的聊天记录。

“子淏,你知道吗?有些人虽然不在身边了,但却依旧在心里。每当看到曾经那些甜言蜜语时,我都安慰自己,假装他还在我身边。有他在,我什么都不怕。”

就像阿妹在《我最亲爱的》里面唱的一样:

经过那段遗憾 请你放心 我变得更加坚强

世界不管怎样荒凉 爱过你就不怕孤单

手机最后5%的电,只要不去动它,也可以待机很久。

你我的聊天记录,也够我续命好长好长。

如果微信是双向删除好友,那太可怕了。

你走了就算了,还把我们的爱过的痕迹,也一并带走了。我不要!分手可以,你特么把锅给我留下啊。

 

 

04

这段时间一直在循环《从前慢》。

那时,车马,信件都很慢。

而现在,青梅竹马,两小无猜,似乎已经变得不复存在。

多少情侣,在没确定关系之前,还只是陌生人。你的朋友,我一个不认识;我的过去,你一无所知。

如果真有一天,你我微信一删,真的就是路人了。甚至连对方是生是死,可能都不会知道。

多少黑名单,曾互道晚安。今天最最陌生的,既是昨日最最熟悉的。

不过没关系,微信只是单删好友。

多年以后,如果我放下这段感情,就让我再添加你为好友,像老朋友一样对你说句:好久不见。

 

 

05

爱情里,从来不会势均力敌。总有一个人,会先离开。

但是,能不能让我在没有彻底放下你的时候,再给我点时间。

当我想你的时候,让我再看看你的头像,以为你在冲我笑。

当我过得不好的时候,让我再翻翻以前的聊天记录,告诉自己,我也曾幸福过。

甚至,大不了,让我放下自尊,再添加一次好友,我们重新认识一遍。

 

 

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